darkheartedsouthernbelle:

Does anyone else find it absurd that all these people are like “Big is beautiful. Curvy girls are better bla bla bla” but the moment you say a girl is bigger, everyone is like “NO SHE’S NOT. SHE’S NORMAL.”? That’s sort of more of an insult isn’t it? To me, that says you don’t actually believe that big can be beautiful. You’re just saying it to convince others that you believe it. It’s much more empowering to say “Yea, she’s big and she’s perfect that way”.